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1. | I like to receive notes of affirmation from you 我喜歡收到你對我肯定的便條 I like it when you hug me 我喜歡你擁抱我 |
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2. | I like to spend one to one time with you 我喜歡一對一地與你在一起 I feel love when you give practical help to me 我感到被愛當你務實地幫助我 |
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3. | I like it when you give me gifts 我感到喜歡當你送禮物給我 I like taking long walks with you 我喜歡與你一起長散步 |
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4. | I feel love when you do things with me 我感到被愛當你幫忙我做事情 I feel love when you touch me 我感到被愛當你接觸我 |
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5. | I feel loved when you hold me in your arms 我感到被愛當你擁我入懷 I feel loved when I received a gift from you 我感到被愛當我收到你的禮物 |
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6. | I like to go places with you 我喜歡與你到處去 I like to hold hands with you 我喜歡與你手牽手 |
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7. | Visible symbols of love (gifts) are very important to me 愛的標記(禮物) 對我非常重要 I feel loved when you affirm me 我感到被愛當你肯定我 |
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8. | I like to sit close to you 我喜歡坐在你的身旁 I like for you to tell me I am attractive/handsome 我喜歡你告訴我可愛/俊美 |
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9. | I like to spend time you 我喜歡花時間和你一起 I like to receive little gifts from you 我喜歡收到你的小禮物 |
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10. | Your words of acceptance are important to me 你的接納言詞對我非常重要 I know you love me when you help me 當你幫助我的時候,我知道你愛我 |
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11. | I like to be together when we do things 我喜歡與你一起做事情 I like the kind words you say to me 我喜歡你對我說親切的言語 |
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12. | What you do affects me more than what you say 你做的事情比言語更能影響我 I feel whole when we hug 當你擁抱我的時候,我感到完全 |
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13. | I value your praise and try to avoid your criticism 我重視你的稱讚和嘗試避免你的批評 Several inexpensive gifts from you mean more to me than one large gift 你送來幾件平宜的小禮物意義大於一件貴重的禮物 |
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14. | I feel close when we are talking or doing something together 當我們一起談天或做事情的時候,我感覺與你親近 I feel closer to you when you touch me often 當你時常接觸我的時候,我感覺與你親近 |
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15. | I like for you to compliment my achievements 我喜歡你對我的成就說恭維的話 I know you love me when you do things for me that you don’t enjoy doing 當你幫助我做一些你不歡喜的事情,我知道你愛我 |
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16. | I like for you to touch me when you walk by 當你走近的時候,我喜歡你接觸我 I like it when you listen to my sympathetically 我喜歡你富有同情心地聆聽我的分享 |
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17. | I feel loved when you help me with my jobs around the house 我感到被愛當你在家裏幫助我做家事 I really enjoy receiving gifts from you 我真正歡喜收到你的禮物 |
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18. | I like for you to compliment my appearance 我喜歡你恭維我的外貌 I feel loved when you take time to understand my feelings 我感到被愛當你花時間了解我的感受 |
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19. | I feel secure when you are touching me 當你接觸我的時候,我感到安全 Your acts of service make me feel loved 你為我服務的行動令我感到被愛 |
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20. | I appreciate the many things you do for me 我欣賞你為我做很多事情 I like receiving gifts that you make 我喜歡你為我親自做禮物 |
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21. | I really enjoy the feeling I get when you give me your undivided attention 我真正感到歡喜當你給我完全的關注 I really enjoy the feeling I get when you do some act of service for me 我真正歡喜當你為我服務 |
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22. | I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with a gift 我感到被愛當你送上禮物來為我慶祝生日 I feel loved when you celebrate my birthday with meaningful words ( written or spoken) 我感到被愛當你以意重深長的話(書面或說話)來為我慶祝生日 |
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23. | I know you are thinking of me when you give me a gift 我知道當你送來禮物的時候,你想念著我 I feel loved when you help out with my chores 我感到被愛當你幫忙我做差事 |
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24. | I appreciate it when you listen patiently and don’t interrupt me 我欣賞你耐心地聆聽又不中斷我的分享 I appreciate it when you remember special days with a gift 我欣賞你不會遺忘在特別的日子裏送上禮物 |
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25. | I like to know you are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks 我喜歡你盡力關注幫助我完成每天的任務 I enjoy extended trips with you 我歡喜與你一起延長旅行的時光 |
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26. | Kissing me unexpectedly excites me 在不預期下親吻我,我感到興奮 Giving me a gift for no special occasion excites me 在不是特別的日子裏為我送上禮物,我感到興奮 |
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27. | I like to be told that you appreciate me 我喜歡你告訴我,你欣賞我 I like to you to look at me when we are talking 當我們對話的時候,我喜歡你看著我 |
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28. | Your gifts are always special to me 你的禮物對我來說是非常特別 I feel good when you are touching me 我感覺良好當你接觸我 |
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29. | I feel loved when you enthusiastically do some task I have requested 我感到被愛當你熱心地為了達成我的要求而做事情 I feel loved when you tell me how much you appreciate me 我感到被愛當我聽見你說多麽的欣賞我 |
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30. | I need to be touch every day 我每天需要被接觸 I feel your words of affirmation daily 我每天要感受被你肯定的言語 |
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Total each column ( all 5 column should equal 30) 總計(全部5欄合計30題) |
How to relate to a person with this love language 如何與有這種愛的語言的人相處 |
Communication
溝通
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Action
行動
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What to Avoid
避免發生的事情
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Words of Affirmation
肯定的言語
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Compliments
恭維
Affirmation
肯定
Kind words
親切的話語
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Send notes/cards
送便條/咭
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Criticism
批評
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Quality Time
優質的時刻
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One-to-one time
一對一時間
Not interrupting
不中斷
Face-to face conversation
面對面對話
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Talk long walkstogether
一起長散步
Doing things together
一起做事情
Taking trips
一起旅行
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Long periods of being apart
長時間分離
More time with friends than with spouse
長時間與朋友一起多於伴陪配偶
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Receiving Gifts
接受禮物
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Positive
正面
Fact-oriented information
針對事實
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Give gifts on special occasions and not so special occasions
在特別和非特別的日子送禮物
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Forgetting special days
遺忘特別的日子
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Acts of Service
服務的行動
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Action words like
“I can, ” “I will,”
“ What else can I do?”
行動語言,例如:
「我能…」「我會…」「我可以做什麽?」
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Helping with house and yard chores 幫忙做家中差事
Repair/maintenance
修理/維修
Acts of kindness
慈惠的行動
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Ignoring spouse’s requests while helping others
只顧幫助他人而忽略配偶的請求
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Physical Touch
身體的接觸
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A lots of nonverbal
大量非語言表達
Verbal need to be word pictures
以圖像代替語言的需要
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Touches
接觸
Hugs
擁抱
Pats
輕拍
Kisses
親吻
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Physical neglect or abuse
生理上忽視或濫用
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